“She is a highly successful leader but her style is too aggressive.”
“He is a great sales guy but rarely follows the script.”
“I am happy to have a partner who is loving and caring but he/she is too emotional and doesn’t take practical decisions.”
People are hard to understand. With every individual having a unique and complex amalgamation of traits and behaviours.
In our interactions with other people, we tend to appreciate the qualities that match our needs and beliefs, while rejecting the ones that don’t.
However, the truth about people is that you can’t customise them as per your needs. They come as a complete package.
Whether or not you accept the package is your choice. But either way, it has to be in whole not in part.